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Brenner-isms in the Month of May

by admin on May 2nd, 2016 at 2:35 pm

If Life itself is the ultimate gift, do we understand life by dissecting it or by living it?

If you are born without generational bias, would you create your own?

If the need for more is inborn, will you ever have enough?

When is your more, less?

If Self- love is lost when we are compared or compare ourselves to another, then how much suffering is needed before that love is reclaimed?

The mind created difference by seeing life as outside the illusion of self.

Why is it so difficult for religions, races & nations to simply say, “I’m sorry” as an act of reparation?

How has childhood pain shaped your life to serve others at the expense of your self?

We are all healers. What in your ancestral past are you here to heal?

If our purpose is to heal the past and provide for the yet unborn, why is it so difficult to realize that you are doing what you’re intended to do?

Does one find themselves by following or living?

Our foremothers and fathers had to do horrible things to survive, do we?

Brenner-isms, the IV: April

by admin on April 1st, 2016 at 11:28 am

The Epigenetic Phenomenon is the scientific proof that environmental factors such as diet, radiation and the emotional experiences of prior generations can effect the expression of genes and the biochemistry of the brain.

Psychology is the future of Preventative Medicine.

The result of the earliest human experiences of epigenetics led to fears of difference and over millennia gave birth to tribes, religions, nations, prejudice, racism, hate and wars.

Coping skills to dull the pain of the unmet needs save us in childhood yet create the same pain in adulthood.

To eliminate the prejudice and racism of the epigenetic past and present demands awareness of how our past once saved us, shaped our present and now has become destructive.

Fear birthed stress with the need to form relationships, groups, religions, nations, prejudice, racism and wars. ALL the above were coping skills for a young species. It ALL must stop for our Collective Survival and collective adulthood.

To eliminate the prejudice and racism of the epigenetic past and present demands awareness of how our past once saved us, shaped our present and now has become destructive.

The present is an illusion created by the non-existent past and projected into the non- existent future.

Partnership is meeting one’s own needs.

To heal is a state of expansion.

The question is more significant than the answer.

If Life itself is the ultimate gift, do we understand life by dissecting it or by living it?

Love is letting go of judgment and comparison.

If our observations are altered by the generational past, what does the present look like?

The Heart Way

by admin on March 8th, 2016 at 11:25 am

Dr. Brenner would like to share this beautiful video about acceptance of death.
This video was created by Dr. Brenner’s grandson, Jaime, as part of the What’s Your Story Project.

If you enjoy the video, please leave feedback on the WYS YouTube Page!

Brenner-isms 3: March

by admin on March 2nd, 2016 at 11:40 am

brennerEpigentics, the study of those environmental forces and trans-generational experiences that effect the expression of genes without effecting gene sequencing, has shown that generation after generation has been born with racism and prejudice.  Born of color into an environment that is reticent to support your birth rights can only lead to suppression and hardships.  The long term impact of Epigenetic is the source of the hate and violence found within such societies which stifle the creativity, equality and humanism of our most vulnerable populations.

The most precious gift in life is life itself.

The present is the present.

Love is a dance between togetherness and aloneness.

The present and the series of choices made within those moments are the creators of our unique story.

Our story is an illusion of the mind. Choice is the only reality.

We are no more than particles within a conscious organism.

Fear, judgment and comparison are our collective cancer.

Love is letting go of judgment and comparison.

Love “does” have conditions.

It is to do No Harm.  Love demands permission.

It takes two to say “Yes” or one to say “No” to have an honoring relationship.

The gift of a meaningful relationship is to individually uncover and heal unfinished business, as well as that of your ancestors.

Individual therapy, pre-marital therapy, and perinatal therapy are keys to prevent illness. Unresolved stress sets the stage for dis-ease.

Brenner-isms, Part 2: February

by admin on February 2nd, 2016 at 1:24 pm

Dr. Paul Brenner has been posting words of wisdom on his Facebook page. We have collected these Brenner-isms to inspire you in the New Year.

 Trying to get it right gets it wrong.

 The greatest gift in life is life itself.

 As soon as we see anything else in life as other than ourselves we become separated from life.

 Life is a shared creation. Everything exists in relationship.

 Who we are is far more important than what we do.

 Who is our commonality. Our doing is our separation.

 Illness can be a friend. It is a time to search within and ask, “Why now?”

 Chronic illness may be asking for transformation.

 Health does not mean freedom from illness. Health is the understanding and acceptance of the life process.

 Stress can shift balanced health to dis-health.

 What are you getting out of illness that is not obtainable in health?

 Psychology is the future of Preventative Medicine.

 If I’m not you, who am I?

 Replace discomforting tapes of emotional pain and suffering by rekindling those innate tapes of contentment and gratitude.

 llness is not the enemy. Illness is a call for movement, transformation.

 If I were alone long enough, I would create you as my best friend. You are my mirror of my disowned self. I can only find me through you. You are part of my wholeness.

 We are no more than particles within a conscious organism.

 Any belief that demeans another life form demeans self.

Brenner-isms: January

by admin on December 31st, 2015 at 9:22 am

Dr. Paul Brenner has been posting words of wisdom on his Facebook page. We have collected these Brenner-isms to inspire you in the New Year.




  • Pure love for others comes from the overflow of love for self and so asks for nothing in return. Such love leads to no-self.
  • You cannot give another what is not within yourself.
  • I am that other, I am.
  • Life abhors constancy.
  • Illness is not the enemy. Illness is a call for movement, transformation.
  • The only one who can save you is you.
  • The only one who can meet your unmet needs is you.
  • Your gift to life is found in your childhood emotional pain.
  • Psychology is Medicine. To truly be present is to erase the past.
  • No thought is worth thinking about.
  • The unmet needs of childhood become a part of our definition of love.
  • A ‘no’ overrules a ‘yes.’
  • The opposite of your cherished values also have values.


INSPIRE! The Power of Story

by admin on December 16th, 2015 at 12:43 pm

Interested in seeing Dr. Brenner, live?

Of course you are! Check out the flyer for more information!

These Homeless Children Will Inspire You

by admin on November 18th, 2015 at 7:23 pm

Dr. Paul Brenner shared a moving and inspiring video, created by his grandson, Jamie Falk, to raise awareness about homeless children and families in our communities, ‘refugees’ in their own Country.


by admin on July 13th, 2015 at 5:43 pm

Dr. Brenner is hard at work with several projects (especially the one called Life) and will return to blogging soon. In the meantime, we are revisiting his post from November of 2013: “SAVE OUR YOUNG” with the addition of a flyer and a link of related projects in which SDCRI is been involved.

SDCRI, through its Hope Made Visible project, is involved in supporting veterans by sharing flags among Armed Services Veterans in Supportive Communities created by Habitat for Humanity.
Check out the flyer for the Hope Made Visible project.
Hope Made Visible™ is an Expressive Arts Therapy program of San Diego Cancer Research Institute; it was created, facilitated and launched internationally by Alessandra Colfi, PhD. Flags have been used throughout history, in different cultures and traditions, as a symbolic means to express personal and universal ideas, to promote and share healing, peace, compassion, and wisdom. Colors, words, and visual symbols become unique self-expression of hope, dreams, victories, losses,and concerns. Sharing the flags allows each artist to be a part of the larger healing group, to be of service to others in similar circumstances, and to co-create an integrated, inclusive community.
h4hOur Veterans have embraced this process and created many stunning flags which symbolically capture their personal stories, feelings, and hopes.

Click here to visit Habitat for Humanity‘s homepage.

(Original post below is from Dr. Brenner’s personal Blog, November 23, 2013)


Our newspapers often report the high incidence of PTSD (1 in 5 soldiers returning from Iraq and Afghanistan), as well as the high incidence of suicide (22 per day) in our military. The vast majority of military suicides are the enlisted ranks between the ages of 17-30. Interestingly, suicide is not necessarily related to combat experience. And, 30 % of our homeless are veterans.


The brain is 95% formed by age three. The remaining 5% is completed in women between the ages of 17-23 and in men between 19- 27 years. This 5% is in the prefrontal cortex area that is responsible for reasoning.

Why Do We Kill Our Young?

A Modest Proposal:

If there was an international law, similar to the one banning nerve gas, that also prohibited men and women from being recruited into the Armed Services before the age of 30, I think we would have a good “shot” at peace. And hopefully, religious groups would agree to stop enlisting their young as suicide bombers?

The military Industrial Complex could then merge with Habitat for Humanity International. The Veterans Administration and National Cemeteries could document humankind’s evolution. V.A. hospitals could be converted to Community Hospitals. Fewer bionic limbs would be necessary. The CIA could use their spare time to investigate congress. The NSA would have greater control of their secret files. Ammunition plants could close and the NRA can use their stock piled bullets to shoot each other. Just think, no debt, stability and maybe, no need for the Federal Reserve.

The Private Defense Company, Academia, aka Black Water International and it’s cohorts Halliburton, DynCorp, Triple Canopy, Executive Outcome, Military Professionals, Total Intelligence Services and yes… Monsanto (check the internet) will have no one to defend other than themselves from each other.

Peace at the cost of saving our young. Seems, a “no-brainer”.

Paul Brenner, M.D., PhD

Booklist: Paul Brenner M.D., Ph.D.

by admin on March 13th, 2015 at 5:05 pm

Below is a collection of wonderful books by Dr. Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D.. Please click on the image or link to take you to a website where you can view or purchase the books. If you find a link that is missing, please contact us here.


  1. Love Made Visible

lmvby Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D., Susan Wingate (Photographer)

“The newborn is conceived in that moment appropriately referred to as ‘making love’– a moment when formless love is made into manifest love.”




  1. Buddha in the Waiting Room: Simple Truths About Health, Illness, and Healing

buddhaby Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D.

This text is a physician’s poignant and insightful account of the mutual holy ground that both physician and patient touch as they encounter the mysteries of life and death together.






  1. Seeing Your Life Through New Eyes: Simple Truths about Health, Illness and Healing

neweyesby Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D., Donna Martin, PsyD

Seeing Your Life Through New Eyes identifies the origin of your personal profile and points you in directions to maximize your potential and transcend self-imposed limitations. This workbook format helps readers create a diary of self-discovery and assists in resolving any misunderstood relationships and addictive behavior.




  1. Seeing Your Life Through New Eyes: A Workbook to Free Yourself from Your Past

seeingby Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D., Donna Martin, Psyd

Guiding readers through a series of questions about their parents, this workbook identifies formative “gifts” and “hurts” that shape how individuals approach relationships.







  1. Life is a Shared Creation

by Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D.










  1. A Shared Creation

by Paul Brenner, M.D., Ph.D.









  1. Health Is a Question of Balance

by Dr. Paul Brenner

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